Thursday, March 15, 2007

A Reminder






There are so many times I feel insulated from the rest of the world living in the small town I do. As I was following the Couey Trial where John Couey has been sentenced to death for kidnapping, raping and burying alive a nine year old girl there was another predator arrested in front of a school in the SAME TOWN as my children's school. Another wake up call to me and other parents that we must always be sure our kids are reminded again and again of what to do to be safe.



A police officer stopped a 2006 GMC van that was driving suspiciously in the area of The School. At the time of his arrest (the suspect) was wearing a red and black children's type marching band uniform. Inside the van deputies discovered stuffed animals, a collection of toys, a variety of photos depicting children in various stages of play and video tapes. One tape proved to be a pornographic movie. (the suspect) is a registered sex offender in a neighboring county but had not registered his current address which may be either 3 miles from me or 30 minutes from me.


The Police stated that the department was unable to provide the District Attorney's office with sufficient evidence due to time constraints to keep (the suspect) incarcerated.


The police added that the investigation will continue as to where (the suspect) is currently living and what his activities have been of late.


After this happened another report came in.


A vehicle appeared to be following some children in the (2 minutes from me) area on March 6. It was described as a "purplish/bluish" van with chipped paint. The male subject driving was described as having a beard. Both the van and the beard match the description of 44 year old registered sex offender (suspect) who was arrested Friday while driving suspiciously in the area of the *** School.
The two boys reportedly ran away from the person and the van because they thought his actions were suspicious.



The Police are asking residents to always be diligent in making sure children are supervised. They have put out a list of reminders for parents.



Teach your children:
To travel or play with a friend, or better yet, a group of friends. When playing, riding their bike or walking to or from school or other destinations the child is more vulnerable when they are alone.


That adults don't usually ask children for directions. If someone stops to ask them directions, they should turn and run away from that person and that car.


If someone is following them, they should go to a place where there are people; to a neighbor's home or into a store. Then ask for help from an adult.


Never go near a car with someone sitting in it and never go into a car without permission from a parent. They should know in whose car they are allowed to ride. Warn them that someone may try to lure them to their car by saying you said it was OK to pick them up. Tell them never to obey those, or any instructions from a person they don't know.


If an adult asks them to keep a secret, they need to tell you about it.


Never take offerings of gifts or money from someone in a car or that they don't know.


Never let anyone take their picture who they don't know.


To yell “HELP”, not just to scream.


As Parents, You Should:


Know where your children are at all times; never leave them unattended and never leave them sitting in a car.

Be involved in their outdoor activities.


When someone shows your child a great deal of attention, find out why.


Listen to your child when they tell you they don't want to be with someone or go somewhere. There may be a reason you should know about.


Do not buy items that have your child's name on them such as jackets, hats, or t-shirts. An abductor could start up a friendly conversation with your child after reading their name.


And it bears repeating. Tell your child to NEVER, EVER get into a car of a person they don't know. Once the child is in the car their chances of survival from a child abduction drop dramatically.


Finally, if you see a suspicious person or vehicle in your area, get the best description you can, including the license number if possible, and call the sheriff's office.

12 comments:

C's Mom said...

Reading this makes me feel so sick. It is an accurate reminder of reality but it is a very sad reality too.

This from a girl who would leave the house in the summer morning as a kid and return at dusk. No one thought a thing about it....then.

Maggie said...

Good post. SO important.

When my niece (now 23 years old) was young, two guys stepped out of a car as she was walking to school. One went back and opened the truck, the other tried to block her path on the sidewalk. She ran up to nearest houses and took off like a bat out of hell for school. I shudder to think what could have happened if she had even hesitated.

Again, good post.

Denise :o) said...

WOW!! Okay, I really need to subscribe to the local paper! I knew NOTHING about this!!! Thank you for posting it. I'm going to go check out Megan's Law website right now. That just sends chills up my spine!

Funny you should post this though because two days ago while I was outside playing with Ivan a white van stopped and picked up a teenager who was walking home from the post office. My first thought because it was a van (sad, I know) was get the license plate number just in case. It's really a scary world we live in now.

wzgirl said...

This is a very, very good post CAMama! I attended a freaky seminar last week about predators for CEUs and it totally freaked me out. Any way that we can build awareness is a very good thing.

You rock.

Dora Renee Wilkerson said...

It's CRAZY what this world is coming to.

My kid's both took what we call "Saftey City" here in Ohio. It's a wonderful course for young children. I wish they had more saftey things such as this for kids every where.

It's scary and sad that it is like it is but this is today's world. All we can do is keep our eyes open and teach are kids to be aware of things...

Sad but ture.

Dora Renee' Wilkerson
http://www.bricoreandfamily.blogspot.com/

"M2" said...

OK, I'm not letting her out. EVER!!!!!

Anonymous said...

I would add that children should be taught that strangers are not always bad guys. Most (though not lately) will use witt and charm to get a child.

OHN said...

Firstly thank sooooo much for the email and the offer of additional information. I will probably take you up on that after I see the GYN.

As for your post...last year at son # 3's football game I saw a guy on the side lines taking photos--zoom lens, high tech looking stuff. I asked a bunch of parents and nobody knew him. I then asked the coach who he was and got some stupid ass answer about him being a guy that goes to kids games to take"Action pix"..well my mom radar went up and I was the only parent that had the nerve to go up to him and ask him if he had a son playing..turns out this guy had NO connection to any of the players or the families. He gave me his website address and it was half-assed at best. I am convinced this guy (who was really creepy as it was) was scouting kids. After I told the coach that these kids (all age 10-12) should not be photographed and put on the net without parental permission, the guy ended up leaving. I actually had parents come up to me and tell me they never gave this guy a second thought till I went around asking questions...they probably would be the first ones shocked when their kids ended up missing or worse. Get your heads out of your butts parents! This is not 1965 any more.I remember all too well as a kid taking off in the morning and the only time my mom saw me is when I was hungry or thirsty and popped back home. We played all over the neighborhood and it is sad it can't still be like that.

Miss Notesy said...

It scares me everyday. There were two kidnapped boys found a couple months ago here in the midwest. One had been missing for four days. The only four years. Yes, years. We all thought he was dead, but he wasn't. When the second boy went missing, the kidnapper's truck was spotted. Thus leading to both of the children.

Pug Mama said...

it makes me sick that there are such people in the world.
I still don't understand how parents let there children go off riding bikes, taking walks, etc...
It's a shame, but we live in a world where there are sick people, and my children are never out of my sight.
I see small kids walking down the street alone, and I always want to follow them home and smack their parents around.
Would you leave $1,000,000.00 in cash out alone, and not watch over it???
No, never. People are more protective of their money.
Chilren are supposed to be priceless.
*from one OVER protective mother!

IMMomsDaughter said...

It's good of you to post this. We can never be too careful as kids tend to be naive and trust adults. As a mom, I shudder when I read about such criminals preying on kids :(

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